How to Eliminate Shyness, Nervousness, and other Forms of Male Social Anxiety... We've culminated the following section from postings to the Dating Insider Forum. Rather than post this section as a stand alone chapter, we've decided to leave in the original posts, which we feel reveal the challenge many men face... How not to act or appear shy or nervous and how to act and appear 100% confident. Read over these common issues men face with social anxiety, and the solutions we've put together for the many men who deal with it. You don't have to live with shyness or nervousness any longer.