The Player's Biography(Books)

The Player owns and operates this web site
and is also the author of the new guide "The

Player's Black Book".

what put me on the path to becoming who I am
today.

The first impression that most people get
from me is that I must have been granted some

I went home and couldn't sleep. I couldn't

sort of special "gift" at birth that gave me
the ability to be naturally confident and

get her voice out of my head, over and over
it repeated "You'll never get my number with

that weak game". That's when it hit me... she
was absolutely right, and in one short

to set the record straight...

sentence had told me exactly how to fix the
problem that had haunted me for years : All

this time I've been trying to pick up girls,
yet had no clue as to the RIGHT way to do it.

I was born and raised in Philadelphia, PA and
lived in what you could call a normal

I never would get a girl's number until I got
some game, so I had to go get some!

household in a decent part of the city.
Through my high school years I was a complete

I stayed up that entire night searching the

failure when it came to getting girls... I
couldn't figure them out no matter what I did

internet and looking through books for
everything that I could possibly learn about

and was constantly wondering what was so bad
about me that made no girl want to get with

how to deal with women... and haven't stopped
to this day.

me. I'd see girls writing "I love so-and-so"
on their notebooks, but the name was never

Over the next two years I studied everything

mine. I'd see groups of girls giggling and
looking at the "popular" guys, while I seemed

I could on seduction : books, movies, web
sites, lyrics and poetry, soaking up as much

to be invisible to them. This continued until
graduation, which came as a relief to me

as possible and incorporating it into my own
lifestyle. I tested everything that I found

because to put it bluntly... school sucks
when you are a nobody.

and realized that some people claiming to
know what they are talking about are flat-out

After school was over I was ready to go on to

liars... while others actually offer good
advice. I began to notice a huge change in

college and start a new life, which I saw as
an opportunity to leave all of my bad

how women were responding to me, and soon
after started getting girlfriends. I started

experiences behind me... but of course that
didn't happen. Despite my efforts to make new

with average looking girls and then quickly
moved on to good looking ones... and my next

friends and find a girlfriend, college was
even more of a challenge than high school

girl was always more intelligent and better
looking than the last, so I was continually

was. I quickly became depressed and my grades
were slipping, I even stopped trying to talk

moving forward.

to girls all together... what was the point
if they wouldn't listen, right?

My torment ensued for another few months

Before I knew it I had become a full blown
Don Juan in the flesh... and was able to pick

until a beautiful summer's day in July
1999... I'll never forget what happened that

up just about any girl that I wanted. My
friends were shocked by my amazing

day, because it is on that day that my life
was completely changed.

transformation, and they soon began to ask me
for advice on how they could become like me.

I gladly helped them out, and soon found out
that I really enjoyed teaching other guys the

I woke up feeling great. The sun was shining,

techniques that I had taught myself. Another
few months passed and I continued to improve

not a cloud could be seen and people were out
and about enjoying themselves... there were

my own skills as well as become better at
training other men, until one day my friend

girls everywhere. I made the decision that
this was going to be the day that I would

Brain sparked the greatest idea I've ever
had. Brain said "Hey, you are getting so good

there is even some way that you can train
hundreds of men at once".

every single girl that I could find...
regardless of what they looked like (at this

point I just didn't care and would settle for
anything.) The sun disappeared and I still

Brain had said because it seemed almost
impossible in my financial situation at that

did not have even one phone number, but I
kept trying and figured that I would most

time, but later on that day I got to thinking
about it... and eventually came up with a

likely have more success at night anyway. To
increase my chances of finding a hot girl, I

solution. During college I studied web site
design, graphic design and internet marketing

decided to go to where there would be a lot
of them, which brought me to a nightclub

because I wanted to start my own online-based
business, and the internet was the best way

called Egypt near downtown Philadelphia. The
place was packed (and it's a huge club, 5-6

that I could present my teachings to hundreds
of men every day... so I put two and two

separate rooms playing different music.)
There were beautiful women smiling, laughing,

together and started Becomeaplayer.com in
October of 2002.

dancing and drinking everywhere I turned...
so I thought that if I couldn't get a girl in

that place then I must be a lost cause. I
tried talking to a few different girls that

Once my web site was up and running it

seemed to be alone but they wanted nothing to
do with me. I then got bold and tried talking

quickly took off, turning those hundreds of
men per day into thousands (Becomeaplayer.com

now receives over 4,000 unique visitors each
day!) My site now has a loyal following that

interest in me at all!

is quite large, with roughly 1,200 return
visitors per day and 35,000+ newsletter

It began to get late and the club was
preparing to close, I knew that if something

subscribers. After some time passed I decided
to allow my visitors to submit their own tips

magic was going to happen... it had to happen
now. I scanned the building for the subject

to be put on the site, which resulted in so
many submissions that I was forced to create

of my final attempt at picking up and laid my
eyes on this blond bombshell at the bar

a new web site (Players Anonymous) just to
host all of this user-submitted content!

waiting for her drink. I approached her and
our conversation went something like this :

Players Anonymous is now the largest
user-driven database of seduction information

on the web, with almost 1,000 tips and over
100 unique articles.

Her - " Hi!" (sounding interested)

I created both of these web sites in order to

At this point I was shocked that she seemed

help all of the men out there that have
problems similar to those that I have faced

to like me and hesitated

in my own life, that is why they are both
totally free sites that anyone can enjoy and

Me - "Uh, are you waiting for your drink?"
<-- dumb question

learn from regardless of how much money they
have.

Her - "Yes" (looks away, losing interest)

Me - "That's cool, me too" <-- stupid

During the past two and a half years since

comment

the release of Becomeaplayer.com, I've had
many requests asking me to write a book

Her - "Ok" (getting annoyed)

containing everything that I know about
picking up women from A to Z. What these

Me - "This club is really packed, huh?" <--
idiotic question

readers did not know is that I had already
been secretly writing "The Player's Black

Book" since the web site was less than six
months old... and that the web site was

Me - "What's your name?"

actually supposed to be a book in the first
place! However, I made the decision to post

Becomeaplayer.com as a free web site and save
my best material for my book, which I would

Me - "Why not?" (starting to realize my

continue working on until it was perfected.

failure)

After over two years in the making the book
is now finally finished, it IS perfect in my

Her - "Because there's no point, you'll never
get my number with that weak game anyway"

opinion.

I walk away.

Interested? Click here to learn more about my
book.

Her words still linger in my mind to this