Psychology Ways To Approach Women

There are great ways to APPROACH WOMEN that will work. A guy may feel he had a great conversation with a woman and think everything went smoothly. He may be counting on her to call him or give him her number. Then he never receives a call or she doesn't return his calls.

WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO ASSURE YOU GET TO TALK TO HER AGAIN?

I think generally you never want to leave it up to the woman to call you because many women won't. It may seem old-fashioned, but the girls are going to play more of a passive role through those initial stages of having the man approach her. And sometimes women just flake out on the guy.

It could mean that when you first approached her you should have taken it further than you did at that time. If you meet a girl and that conversation and interaction has a lot of potential, you should take it as far as you can. Settling for a number can cause the attraction to dissipate.

WHAT IF SHE SEEMS COLD AND DISTANT, MAYBE LIKE SHE DOESN'T REMEMBER YOU? CAN THAT MEAN THAT SHE ACTUALLY DOESN'T REMEMBER YOU? CAN IT MEAN THAT SHE IS PLAYING HARD TO GET?

It is good to remember that a lot of times girls get a lot of phone numbers in just one night. It may be that she might have wanted to know you, but your number got mixed up with all the other numbers. Be the guy who approaches her and takes it further than just her number.

WHAT THINGS CAN A GUY DO TO BUILD UP HIS CONFIDENCE WITH ALL THE COMPETITION TO MEET WOMEN?

I think the first thing to realize is that going out on the town is a competitive environment. It is a bit of a melting pot for players, for lots of different types of people, different types of women, and it is a little bit of a jungle. You have got to be prepared for all kinds of things to happen.

WHAT ABOUT PAYING ATTENTION TO YOUR SURROUNDINGS AND HER SURROUNDINGS? IF SHE IS IN THE CORNER READING A BOOK OR A MAGAZINE, DO YOU SUGGEST STAYING AWAY FROM HER OR ASKING HER ABOUT WHAT SHE IS DOING AND TRYING TO MAKE A CONVERSATION OUT OF IT?

I would encourage guys to always approach girls. Don't try and read into the situation at all, because I have heard every excuse under the sun. When a guy is a little bit anxious, he will find reasons not to approach.

He will say stuff like maybe that is her boyfriend, or maybe she looks busy, I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable, she is out with her friends. You want to ignore all of that stuff and just talk to women anyway.

IF A GUY IS NOT SEEING MANY GIRLS THAT HE LIKES AND HE IS TAKING TOO MUCH TIME, AND STARTING TO GET INTO HIS OWN HEAD, WHAT DO YOU THINK ARE SOME GOOD EXERCISES TO GET HIM TO BECOME MORE SOCIAL AS THE NIGHT PROGRESSES?

I think for most guys, a good rule is to stay out longer. A big part of being good with girls, especially in the bar and nightclub environment, is having a lot of mental endurance and mental stamina. One thing I have noticed with a lot of guys that aren't very good at picking up girls is they go home far too early. It is one or two in the morning they are tired, exhausted and they want to go home. Don't do that. The longer you stick it out, the better chance you have of approaching a woman you want to know.