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Online dating services have become very popular in recent years and they are being used widely as a form of modern style dating. Research carried out by the Online Publishers Association and COM Score Networks revealed that US citizens alone spent more than 450 million dollars on online dating in 2004. This increased spending has led to online dating becoming one of the biggest areas of paid content on the World Wide Web.
Since 2006, thousands of dating websites have launched, including the most popular dating sites such as eHarmony and Match.com.
Initially, there was a bit of a stigma associated with online dating sites. A lot of people looked at those who started dating online as socially inept, strange or as people who had become so desperate to find a partner that they had resorted to online dating as a last resort.
Nevertheless, online dating started to become extremely popular during the middle of the 1990s. This popularity grew even more in 1998 with the movie "You've Got Mail" starring Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks. This beautiful love story centred around two people who met online and helped dispel the shame of dating online. Instead, people who use the Internet as the medium of dating are now considered as educated and sophisticated. Furthermore, dating online is now considered as a very effective, practical and intelligent way of meeting people for relationships, dates and marriage.
There are lots of advantages to online dating compared to the conventional way of meeting people, for example by meeting a stranger at a bar. Online dating websites users will have the chance to look through profiles of their potential partners before starting to chat with them. This provides the perfect opportunity to find out more information about a potential date and to find more about their likes, dislikes, beliefs and philosophies on life. This is so much more information compared to those stilted, shouted conversations in a conventional bar that are forced to compete with the surrounding noise and loud music.
More importantly, in these more "normal" surroundings, a person is restricted only to those people who happen to be around at the same time whereas online you can select from thousands of individuals from any country in the world. Of course, the biggest fears in the dating game are the worry of the opening line and the fear of rejection. On the Internet, it is easier to approach and say hello to the people who you might feel very nervous to talk to in real life. If things don't work out then it is easier recover from the rejection when you can hide behind a keyboard and monitor.
The Internet has turned to be a very rewarding and enjoyable way of searching for a partner. Online dating tends to lead to a longer period of courtship. Participants tend to spend more time enjoying getting to know each other and finding more about each other. Maybe this is a throwback to a bygone age but, surely, a relationship that develops slowly and is based on getting know each other is more likely to succeed than one based on a chance meeting in a bar?
My name is Rachel Dooley and I manage three online dating web-sites. I've, also, met and dated several people online. Some of the relationships have been successful and some less successful but I've always felt that the relationship has had a better foundation than those relationships started took a bit too much Vodka to initiate.
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