How To Flirt In Bars And Have Your Pick Of Women

Learning to flirt in bars and have your pick of the women. It's all about mingling, knowing people, and making yourself available and open to options by not getting locked in on one person. Knowing the different people who work in the bar, know your people who work behind the bar, the people who manage the bar really helps. Always, when it comes to bars, I will go early when they're just opening, when nobody's there. I don't know five, six, or seven in the evening, somewhere around that time before they get busy, or if it's a day bar, in the morning, nine or ten in the morning, when they're just opening up. Go and make friends with the staff members over there, you know give them big tips; 20, 50, or whatever. It's all about familiarity with the people and places.

Just a big tip so that the staff working there will treat me really friendly when I come back at night and there's lots of people in the bar, it makes a good impression on others to see me treated well by the staff. I find out a little bit about the people who work in the bar. Get to know them on a more personal level, establish an acquaintance with them. The reason I do that, I guess, is it's going to create that feeling of familiarity and comfort.

With the staff and the people in the club knowing who I am. The girls are going to think, "Who is this guy?" It's going to give me that social proof. I can introduce them by first name to the people who work there, and so on and so forth. Even if I've only ever been to that place once in my life, it makes me look like I'm familiar and comfortable with my surroundings and the people in it. That gives me an opportunity to just move around the room as well when it is busy. I'm not just stuck in long conversations with girls, and having it in my mind also that I'm there qualifying girls; I'm there screening for the type of girls the bar or club has to offer.

It's always good to have the type of girl that I like or a quality that I'm after in mind. If I didn't have those qualities or types that I like, and have those set in my mind, and know what they are, then I could just get stuck in conversations for twenty minutes, half an hour, an hour, two hours with one girl. That would keep me from being able to move around and mingle in the bar. I might be excited that just any girl is talking to me, so I just want to stay in as long as possible. But really I just want to be looking for the type of girl that I'm after, and really getting them to qualify to me that they meet the standards and qualities that I'm looking for in a woman.