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WAYS TO GRAP A WOMAN'S ATTENTIONby David DeAngelo

If you want to succeed with women, you need to learn how to stand out from the crowd and grab a woman's attention, fast. No, it's not about fancy clothes or pickup lines. It's about learning a few key skills that will make a lasting impression on the woman you want. Here are 10 tips you can use immediately:

* improve yourself
* don't give in to tantrums
* grabbing attention online
* forget the tricks

* smooth out awkward silences

* get numbers smoothly
* three more dos and don'ts of body language
* take control
* know what you'll say ahead of time
* retool your body language

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* improve yourself

Most guys don't take the time to work on themselves. If you really want to grab a woman's attention -- and keep it -- then be one of the few men who take the time to develop themselves into the kind of guy worthy of an amazing woman's attention.

Invest in yourself -- get an education on how to attract women naturally -- and that'll do more than anything else to put you on the path to success with the women you want.

* don't give in to tantrums

Many women will test you by complaining about themselves.

The next time this happens, take whatever she's saying and turn it up a notch. If she says: "My hair makes me look so ugly," just reply, "You know, I wasn't going to say anything, but..." Remember, combine Cocky with Funny and you have an excellent chance of hitting her attraction buttons.

If you really want to be bold, just say: "So, what am I going to get paid for babysitting tonight?" Or even better, "Did this stuff work on your dad? Why didn't he spank you more?" I'm cracking myself up over here.

* grabbing attention online

The No. 1 mistake men make online is writing normal, boring stuff and asking normal, boring questions.

Instead, when you get a reply, e-mail and ask her for her number and tell her that you're swamped with a million messages from supermodels who keep bragging about how much money they have, and she needs to act fast or you'll be gone. Do not, under any circumstances, talk about lame, normal stuff. This will give you an advantage over 90% of the other men looking for women online. Trust me.

source : www.askmen.com