Adam Gilad's Biography(Books)

Adam Gilad is an eclectic, inveterate
creator, writer, Emmy-nominated Producer,

communications expert in various fields all
my life, as a Humanities Center Graduate

traveler, scholar, teacher, student and
life-enthusiast.

Fellow at Stanford, as a Hollywood writer and
producer (picking up an Emmy nomination on

the way) and as a communications and creative
consultant for Fortune 500 companies.

Fearless Lover, Inc., an evolving suite of
online and seminar enterprises which aim to

Married at 23, I found myself single in my

guide men and women into their inner
strengths and highest intentions, then

late thirties, and devoted myself to
"figuring out" what is possible — how could

communicate with each other in a powerful,
passionate, compassionate and most

men and women touch and inspire each other?
What creates passionate attraction in the

importantly, mutually inspiring way.

first moment? What inspires devotion over
time? I had no idea what lay in front of me,

His goal with The Fearless Lover is to
effectuate, (for himself as well as for

others!), a buoyant life of diminished fear
in all its forms, and a continuous opening of

I threw myself into study — live workshops,

the heart into deeper, broader love as a
daily practice -- no matter what.

scores of books, insane amounts of roguish
post-divorce dating, questioning, and finding

Adam Gilad is a dating and communication

the best teachers I could.
As a writer, I found the world of Internet

expert, teacher, speaker, writer, film
producer, entrepreneur, father, thinker and

Dating a treasure trove, not only personally,
but for insight into the ways both men and

spiritual adventurer. “You can live the
journey into love as squatting defendedly in

the mini-mall of the soul,” he has written,
or you can skydive into making it your

Internet profiles are a window into

life’s most profound journey of daily
awakening. Your choice.”

self-image and esteem, barely-hidden fears
and hopes and all the places where men and

Roping in a rollicking and eclectic training

women want so much to find passion,
connection and love — but F

– ranging from Cambridge University and a
fellowship at the Stanford Humanities Center,

it up.

to Himalayan Buddhist Monastaries, sleepless
Jerusalem study houses, Amazonian shamanic

So I wrote two ebooks (sometimes using the
pen name Grant Adams), now called

journeys, Hollywood (he’s an Emmy Nominated
Producer) and years of relentless study and

DeepAttractionOnline for men and The Right
Man Online for women — showing, in detail,

exploration in the realms of love, awakening
and communication, Adam masterfully sparks

how to express your best self in a language
that the other gender actually FEELS.

his readers and clients into shaking free
from limitation and creating a robust life of

(It looks like both are coming out together

passionate love, deep devotion, fearless
authenticity, daring and, ultimately, playful

as a hardcover book with the catchy title of,
Net2Bed/Net2Wed: How To Attract The Partner

evolution.

of Your Dreams For a Night…Or a Lifetime
— which was the original title of my

“Love is not a slice of the pie. It IS the
pie.”

men’s book – we should be on TV by
January, 2010)

A self-described “Lawrence of Suburbia,”

The men’s book took off and started selling

Adam set off into the world in his mid-teens,
determined to seize every day. Pushing his

all around the world. Flooded with questions,
I then created follow up training programs on

old iron bike up a rainy Castle Hill at
Cambridge University, he was struck by the

how to Approach and Connect with women
(Masters of Approach), how to be a thoughtful

infiinity of love, which suddenly dwarfed his
other studies and interests. Beginning a

and powerful lover (Erotic Mastery) and began
a monthly interview series where we explored

journey into world spiritual traditions, he
married young and fathered two sons, who

what it means for men to be a "Complete
Attractor."

continue to be his primary teachers today.
Suddenly single at 39, he decided to devote

What began as "how to succeed in dating" soon

his time and energy to figuring out how we
love and, how we hinder love – that, or sit

became what it needed to be: how to be the
man (or woman) who inspires the other gender

in his house and sulk 24 hours a day. And an
entirely new career was born…

not by what you do, but by the human being
your are.

With a wicked, but illuminating sense of

Ultimately, being successful in this realm

humor, and drawing from world wisdom
traditions as well as his own wild ride, he

— whether dating or long-term relationships
— is a spiritual process. Why?

helps both men and women unlock their
courage, the depths of their ability to love,

Because it means learning and discipline,

and how to articulate and practice a
compassionate, forgiving, sexy life of

reeling in the ego, feeling into the depth
and reality of other people, perpetual

creativity, freedom and intimacy.

testing and practice and a stance of openness
and curiosity about the dance of it all.

With his abundant writing, including Deep
Attraction Online and Ageless Attraction for

Along the way I have founded The Fearless

men, and The Right Man Online for women,
this PhD/AbD has attracted a following in the

Lover, produced several workshops for the
esteemed writer and thinker, David Deida, as

dating and relationship industry of over
40,000. his efforts have resulted in reborn

well as creating an experimental online
community for his devoted community. I

faith in dating and love, countless dates and
relationships and marriages on virtually

studied with Satyen Raja and co-founded
WarrriorSage Village – which is an

every continent on Earth (penguins do mate
for life, but it’s not technically

intentional online/offline community devoted
to living a life of passion, love and

“marriage.”)

freedom.

Gathering together a broad and deep faculty
of teachers of sacred sexuality, I co-created

How do we love? Why do we retract from the
very things that give us most happiness? How

One Tantra, and recently, also co-founded
Evolver Intensives — (see Evolver.net) a

can we navigate our own wounds and the wounds
of those we meet to create joy, openness,

monthly online learning series for people who
are devoted to really thinking about where we

exploration, passion and a life of
awakening?

are all going as a culture and as a species
— transformational consciousness, economics

These are the questions that bring me here to

and food and health practices for this new
era.

you, and, I’m guessing, bringing you here
to me.

We are all evolving — and you can do it

These questions — the things that make life

consciously and create the life you actually
want to live, with the lover or lovers we

worth living — emerge here as "How can we
attract an intimate partner? How can we more

deeply connect with an intimate partner?" And
"How can we inspire our intimate partner?"

habits, defensive ego and cycles of pain and
disappointment.

The answers, of course, come with bold and

You know which side I am on. I hope you stay

rigorous self-understanding, practice and
learning.

on this journey with me — on the path of
becoming a truly inspiring man leading a

And the answers will keep coming — if you
keep asking.

powerful, fun and inspiring life. The world
needs you. Good women need you.

That is what I do. I have been writing and

teaching about dating, sex and relationships
for several years. I have worked as a